10 Positive Coaching Tips

1.      Applaud effort and attitude more than performance.

2.      Look for positives, and make a big deal out of them.

3.      Stay calm when my kids make mistakes, helping them learn from their mistakes.

4.      Have reasonable and realistic expectations.

5.      Treat players with respect, avoiding put-downs, sarcasm, and ridicule.

6.      Remind players not to get down on themselves.

7.      Remember not to take myself too seriously during the game.

8.      Maintain a positive attitude, with lots of laughter and a sense of humor.

9.      Emphasize teamwork, and help my kids think "we" instead of "me."

10.  Be a role model of good sportsmanship: 

(a) Winning without gloating
(b) Losing without complaining
(c) Treating opponents and officials with fairness, generosity, & courtesy